It's always nice when you land on a site where you can tell they're happy you showed up, isn't it?
Are you being welcoming on your family history blog? Are you making visitors feel comfortable and welcomed? Are you greeting those potential cousins?
A welcome makes people feel better. And do I really need to tell you that a happier and more comfortable potential cousin is more likely to contact you? {Yeah.}
Here are some tips for rolling out the welcome mat for your family history blog visitors:

Surname Label Cloud
Um. Not a real cloud. And not a storage cloud.
But a Label Cloud.
If you've been blogging a while and you've added the Label Gadget to your Blogger Family History Blog, then you know how unwieldy that list can get. Even worse, it's ugly and not really all that usable by your family history blog visitors.
You know, those potential cousins you want to read your stuff to see if you're related? Yeah, those folks.
So? Make a Surname Label Cloud. Here's how:

© Copyright 2013 Caroline M. Pointer
As a researcher, you scour the Internet looking for your ancestors. You look high. You look low.
What's the first thing you do once you land on a site?
Start reading it? If there's a lot of stuff or a lot of pages on the site {or blog}, that might take a while. And? You're in a hurry. The weekend is almost over. It's almost time to take off your Weekend Research Warrior Hat and put the Ol' Day Job Hat back on. *Big Sigh*
So then you might look for a search box. 'Cause, duh. That would be easier, but...
So. You've created a blog, you've been blogging about your ancestors, you've been responding to comments on your blog, but? You still haven't made any cousin connections.
What else do you need to do to make your family history blog as inviting and as enticing as possible so that cousins will contact you for possible research collaboration?
Well,...
Blog awards are nice and flattering. They're even better when they are awarded to you for your blogging. It's nice to be appreciated and complimented.
Back in 2009-2010 many blog awards were all the rage, and believe me. They made their rounds several times over in the genealogy blogosphere, not to mention in many, many other blogging niches. Everyone was complimenting everyone, linking to everyone, and proudly posting their blog awards on their sites with links back to the creator of the blog award. Everyone was feeling pretty good...
It's nice to have new blog visitors, especially if you've been spending a lot of time and money on social networks to get them to your blog.
But if you've ever looked at your blog's stats, you may have noticed, that they come, read a blog post {if you're lucky, 2} and then they leave. And oftentimes, silently.
They're in and then they're out.
They didn't even read enough to determine if they might be related in some way.
So how, then, do you get a blog visitor, and most especially a potential cousin, to stay and read?
At my old church, we used to host quite a few non-religious {secular} community groups and meetings in our facilities throughout the week. It was part of our community outreach. And, invariably, our Bibles would end up missing from our meeting rooms. Now, this infuriated some church members because they really couldn't get past the whole stealing-at-church-thing. And I get that. And so did our priest's wife who also worked at the church and was always {and still is} full of some powerful wisdom.
And as we were talking about the theft and the reactions to the theft she mentioned that it's just part of our outreach and that if they needed the Bible so badly that they'd steal it, then let them have it for goodness sakes. {She's from Monroe, Louisiana so you should infuse THAT dialect and additional syllables into her words too. Awesome.}
And that particular conversation memory is the exact reason I changed the original title to this blog post from Blogging Genealogy: Stop Image Theft.
When we first start blogging our family history, there's a kind of pressure to blog...
every
single
day.
But? Is this really necessary?